STEP YA GAME UP LADIES (Fellas give your feedback as well)

Ladies, I know yall think i'm bout to bash yall but i'm not. For those of you who know me, know I like to talk shit, so here goes. Ok its 2011 and for alot of us, we aint getting no younger, and believe it or not there are quite a few dudes that are really ready to settle down, but the pickings are slim. Before yall get to rolling yall eyes hear me out. For one Most Women (note i said women i'm not speaking to lil girls) standards are TOO damn high, should you settle for less? no, but on the flip side you're not gonna find a man that meet ALL of your standards yet alone meeting a man and expect him to meet your standards within the first year of your relationship. I will be the first to admit, us men, we need grooming. We are rough around the edges so dont expect us to be superman right off bat, thats the first mistake.

I've heard so many women say "he's ok, but if he just had this, or if he didn't have this many baby mama's" or "he aint making enough money for me, i can do bad by my damn self" see thinking like that is what turn us away and make us "act out". A real MAN know how to take care of home, a real man suppose to have the mentality of "i'll go without to make sure home is str8" so if you're dealing with somebody who aint taking car of home, then he aint a man to begin with so you may as well start from scratch. I'm saying that to say this, give some of these dudes a chance. yeah u may find a phone number here, see a text message there, and i'm not defending dudes here, but sometimes we fuck up..hell chasing women has been in our nature since we could learn to walk, think about it, what do yall say when yall see a cute lil baby boy, all fresh and looking cute "girl you better watch out cause them lil girls gone be at him when he get older" it's been instilled in us since the beginning of our time, its no excuse because at the end of the day we make our own decisions, however.

It's too easy to come by, thats when a REAL WOMAN step in. a REAL WOMAN know how to take care of her man. A real woman is gonna cook and clean for her man. A REAL WOMAN is gonna sex her man like no other. I hear too many so called women say they don't do this or they dont do that, or I aint your maid, or I aint his momma. But on the flip side you want a coach, gucci, or louis purse (not that fake shit) or this necklace, or this outfit, or $200.00 plus hair do's. This shit even out, yall expect us to treat yall to all of that, but can't get piece of fried chicken and some greens and come home to a clean house, smh...but its all on us men..we're the problem. Now for those women who do all of the above and buddy still aint acting right, then u just may still be dealing with a boy in a man's body, or a nigga that just aint ready to give up that other lifestyle at that point in time thats when you need to make him choose you or that lifestyle. But yall be so far in, (with kids and relationships for over 10yrs) that yall be comfortable and scared to start over, but those are choices you have to make, but if yall continue to LET the men do these things and get away with it over and over and over and over AND over again do you think he's really gonna change??? let me ask you this, if a drug dealer can sell drugs and ALWAYS get away with it do you think he will ever live the right life?..so dont go blame the man so quick cause some of yall women can prevent a lotof the heart ache and pain...ok i'm done yall holla at me...